It’s not in your boss’s best interest to undermine your work. Decide whether to give them benefit of the doubt with 3 steps:
- Reflect. What were the undermining behaviors? Something quantifiable, eg. delayed feedback, lack of transparency, or more soft skill-related, e.g., dismissive, public criticism. Or was it really about not giving credit where credit is due?
- Seek clarity from your boss. Provide specific examples where the project was not as successful due to [undermined work]. Avoid sounding accusatory: you’re micromanaging, playing favorites, passive-aggressive, deliberate sabotage. Just ask for their behavior change to enable you for project success. Giving them the benefit of the doubt gives you room to grow, too.
- What to do if your boss brushes off your concerns about being undermined or you conclude that your race/sex/age made you a target? RUN!!!
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